It wasn’t that I didn’t know John
I knew his liking of plain T-shirts
The denim jeans that he would walk out of his condo in
always a size too big
How he would look away slightly
or turn his head to look at the ground to make a fast exit
How he was a large man
but tried his best to appear as small as possible
although he was quite mighty
It’s just that for twenty-five years
my neighbor John
was a man of great silence
hesitant to spare words
never to deviate from the quiet
with which he shrouded himself in his world
His silence didn’t wish to bear hostility
It didn’t force distrust
No suspicion or fear entered the moments of chance
when we left our apartments at the same time
every morning without fuss
I didn’t realize until much later
that I never saw him in company
he was alone
but often left his home
driving away in a truck never occupied by anyone
just himself
on his own
I wondered how he went
from day to day
in the grips of a brevity
the longevity of his silence
outlasting the possibility of patience
left in most of humanity
I couldn’t tell if his stoicism
was a choice
determined by anything aside from my imagination
to replace his voice
A “hello” always met
with a “hello” in return
A nod with a nod
Rarely, a smile with a smile
always a calm without any wish to further prod
Yet, when I looked in the mirror
I couldn’t see any fragments of John
or the reflection he seemed to create
when confronted by my pleasantry
refusing the need for debate
Perhaps a life lived
is one earned through delicate exchanges
A silence maintained is a quiet kept
in the face of turbulent phases
If gain was determined by social currency
a word would be a dollar often bartered for nothing
but the same,
removing urgency
With John, it was all I wished it to be
all the thoughts my mind could conjure
all the possibilities the brain wouldn’t validate with certainty
But there was nothing I came to know more
through the encounters with my neighbor
than the entrails of myself
spread through contemplation’s labor
The thoughts I was left with
when faced with the accidental hero
the world seemed to eventually favor
The insistence of his endless silence
that nature deemed to be of a value much greater